es you feel stupid for wearing it, get a new partner. (Ok I’m kind of joking! Sort of. I mean, I do truly believe that if your partner makes you feel insecure or uncomfortable about yourself, your body, or sex in general you should take a good hard look at that relationship an…o makes you feel stupid for wearing it, get a new partner. (Ok I’m kind of joking! Sort of. I mean, I do truly believe that if your partner makes you feel insecure or uncomfortable about yourself, your body, or sex in general you should take a good hard look at that relationship and decide if it’s right for you. But obviously I’m not just blindly telling everyone to break up.)